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 Mortuary (2005)
IMDB rating: 7.00
Plot: Deerhaven has been burdened by disappearances for more than two decades and local officials have come up empty as no trace of the missing have ever been found. An eccentric psychiatrist with questionable credentials comes to town implicating the local mortician, Henry Parks. Claiming to be Henry’s former doctor from a facility where Henry had been institutionalized, Dr. Gronig suggests that the mortician may not have been suitable for release and may be using his father’s parlor as a cover for deeper, darker things. During the same week four young college students plan for the local Friday night bash, but Monte has bigger plans for them. He wants to do something different and takes them from party to the local mortuary for a kinky midnight treat. The problem is that some of the doctor’s implications may have been true and for Monte, Sky, Tina and Tony, this will be a night they will never forget. That is if they survive.
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Directors: Hooper Tobe
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My grandmas death still hurts me…advice?
My gramma died from brain/liver cancer on December 23rd 2008.
It was a long time coming; in fact, she was diagnosed with cancer December 23rd 2006 (EXACTLY 2 years of knowing)
So I felt prepared for at least a year and I felt that I was ready for her to be gone.But when I got the phone call, I was devastated. I was right there with my mom to handle the arrangements (going to the mortuary to dicuss final details, then to pick up her ashes..etc.) and I felt like being the strong one for my mom and baby brother would get me through it.
But here is christmas yet again, and I am feeling the terrible loss as if it happened last week. The holiday now reminds me of what I am missing, and I feel really lonely without her.
Its been a year…is it normal to feel this way? For the past 2 days I have been having a hard time just doing my regular routine.. (going to work, doing homework, house duties etc) and I just want to lay in bed and do nothing. That is really unlike me and I am sort of worried.For people who have gone through this- how long does this last?
(If it helps, I am a 20yr old female)
thanks!
well i am a grandmother. and i know when i leave this world my kids and grandkids will hurt, but i spent my whole life lovin them and trying to protect them from any kind of pain and the last thing i would want would be to hurt them. so as a grandmother i will say. she loved you and now to show her your love you must get pass her death . live a good life . make grannie proud and as you suceed in life give her the credit for helping you be strong. shes watching over you, i know, because i would be over mine
| Nov 10, 2009
Oh, I’m very sorry to hear about that.
My grandma died a year ago, and I’m 15 years old. You will get over her death sometimes, but once in a while you will remember and get sad.. but I think that happens to everyone.
I still miss her after a year, and I will always.
hope this helps, good luck.
Torikins | Nov 10, 2009
Well its normal and since you were being strong for your family you probably didn’t grieve her properly so cry. you should cry and when you feel like you Miss her talk to her tell her that you miss her tell her your problems and what you are happy about tell her to send you love and trust me you will feel so much better. She is listening to you from were ever she is and will respond to you some way or another And i don’t believe that she is listening to you do it as a exercise that helps you miss her a little less.
Hope that helps.
sweets | Nov 10, 2009
Grief works differently for everyone. I was very close to my grandmother who had skin cancer. She lived with the cancer for nearly 13 years, at the time, essentially my entire life. Growing up I didn’t know how threatening cancer was, because it was something Grandma always had.
It has been close to 11 years now, and there are times when I will look at family photos or think of sharing a special moment with her (like the birth of my son, or my wedding day) and realize that I wasn’t able to, and it still hurts.
The truth is that time will help you. The other truth is that time does not heal all wounds. For me, most of my relief is found through Christ and God, as I am a Christian> Sometimes I find that praying helps to ease the pain, as I ask for His comfort and the comfort and peace of the Holy Spirit to fill me. Sometimes though, even that doesn’t help, and I find writing, be it in a journal or poetry can help. I think the important steps your already taking is to realize that your are still effected by it, which is good because by realizing this your not simply allowing yourself to just fall into the pits of depression. I know my grandmother would not want that for me. So when I’m feeling especially down and having the most trouble dealing with it, I set aside a pre-determined amount of time to grieve. To think of her, remember her, and cry because I simply miss her. Then I force myself to get up, and find someone to hug. For me, it’s my husband or my son. For you, it could be your mother or brother. And then I just take one foot in front of the other to go about my day.
Don’t know if that helps at all. Hope your able to find the peace you need to get through the holiday season.
Zell | Nov 10, 2009
My mom died last year, novmeber 27th and I feel pretty much the same
christmas is here again and my mom’s not. I felt the same tjis april, it was my 18th and I got pretty miserable when I knew she wasn’t going to be around for it.
I guess it’s just because the time is close and it’s christmas, you’ll get through it, you need your family at a time like this.
I am so lucky I have my family and my girlfriends family, they’re so good to me.
It’s so sad that’s your gran died two days before christmas, my nana died 23rd of december 2003 but luckily I didn’t find out untill after new year (I was away for christmas).
You’ll get through it 
just remind yourself of all the goodtimes even if it’s sad and painfull, no one can ever take those memories away from you and your nan will be around for christmas if you take the time to remember her every way possible.
Laura M | Nov 10, 2009
Hello, I’m really sorry to hear about your loss. I’d hate say it, but death never comes easy for anybody, and there’s no set time for someone to stop grieving. Everybody is different when it comes to dealing with a loss…some deal with it quickly, and for some it may take many years.
I think that what you’re feeling is very normal..it sounds like you and your grandmother seemed very close. I also believe that when it comes around the time of the anniversary of a loss, that others have a hard time dealing with that as well. I’m sure that you’ve had some wonderful memories with her, and it helps to reminisce about what she has done for you while she was alive. It may not seem easy for you right now, but it really helps if you remember her for who she really was. Maybe you need to talk to grief counselor about what you’re feeling…but I think talking about how you feel can also help deal with the pain.
I know exactly what you’re going through, only my dad passed away unexpectedly on Jan. 8, 2008. He was backing up in the driveway, and something really bad must have happened to him. However the car was in park, but my baby sister found my dad slumped over the steering wheel unconsious. Not knowing what she should do, she ran in and told my mom. My mom found my dad, called 911, and started trying to revive him. By the time the paramedics arrived, they tried doing everything they could to save him..but it was too late. I will never forget that phone call I received from my mother..my entire world just fell to pieces. My dad meant everything to me because we were very close. This may sound a little crazy but I think I might have a sixth sense as to when it comes to someone close in my family passes. The day my dad died, the entire day just felt so different, and I remember feeling really anxious. It was also very cold and windy that day..but to me it felt like the deadest place I could ever be on this planet. The day wore on, and I tried making sense out of why I was feeling the way that I felt. At about 11:30 that night that’s when I got that phone call. I felt the same way when my grandmother and great-grandmother passed. It’s almost like I could sense them passing. It sounds really crazy, but when they did pass, nothing to me made sense.
Now that it’s almost two years later after my dad passed, I still find myself feeling lost without him. But I believe he’s in a better place. My dad was a pretty sick man before he passed, with a list of health problems..his main problem was his diabetes. He was diagnosed with Type One in 1952..when he was 10. Diabetes research at the time was in it’s infnacy, and doctors told him he wouldn’t live past 35-40 years old. But with all of the advanced research done over the years, he lived to be 65..to me that’s an amazing life span for someone who’s had Diabetes for 55 years. However it cost him half of one of his legs, he had severe heart problems, he had to take a pharmacy of medications, he was always in pain due to neuropathy in his hands and legs..he was just a very sick man in the end. But you know what? He never let his suffering put him down..he could hide it all very well. He was a very active person..even with the amputated leg. But I can’t help but wonder if my dad suffered a great amount of pain before he died, or that his death came so quickly that he didn’t even know what was happening to him. Right now I have tears in my eyes because I will never know if he suffered a great deal, or if he died quickly and peacefully. In fact when I do think about that, I always feel really sad.
Sure enough the holidays are tough for me also. But I believe my dad is in Heaven watching over us and he’s happy because we’re happy. That’s all he’s ever wanted for his family, but still, it’s very hard. Before I believed that there was a right way or a wrong way to grieve..when now I know that’s not the case. It’s been almost 13 years since my grandma passed, I still get a little sad, and I still really miss her. It does get easier a little over time..and it sounds like that’s all you need. Like I said, just remembering the wonderful memories about your grandmother really does help with grief. If you feel uncomfortable with the way you’re feeling, you should talk to a counselor. I’m sorry this was soooo long, but I really hopes this helps. God Bless.
Allison | Nov 10, 2009
